My friend Kim and I went out to the Oxwood Inn last night for their weekly Club Shine tranny night. I’ve said this numerous times here on the blog but nights out at bars are weird. We had a pretty good time, but for me it was better earlier in the evening. As the night goes on there’s more alcohol in people and things get louder and more unpleasant. A guy I’ve known for years also got annoyed at me as I declined his offer to buy me a drink and then later confronted me as I went back a few minutes later to get my own drink (just OJ, as I was the designated driver). Maybe I should have waited a little longer but I didn’t realize I was being watched. To be honest, I’m not thrilled when guys offer to buy me drinks, and I almost always say no, unless they’re friends whom I know don’t have any ulterior motives. With this guy, he’s fine, but yeah, there’s always that sense when he’s talking to me that he wants more, and I’m not interested; it’s just a little bit uncomfortable.
Later, when we finally left at 12:30 the bar area was packed and you could only get out by taking a few steps here, a few there, till you finally got to the door. One guy was intent on getting through and literally pushed people ahead of him as he muscled his way across the room. By that point I’d had way more than enough. Although Saturday night is the happen’ night at “the Ox,” I much prefer the Thursday karaoke night, which is more laid back, with far less aggression and sexual tension in the air, and hey, singing! So although this post sounds like the evening was a total bummer, really it was okay and good hanging out with my friend and getting to talk earlier in the evening. Still, it’ll probably be six months before I go back on a Saturday ;-)
Here I am smiling but not totally comfortable…
If I saw you in a bar I would offer you a drink. You are a looker.
i’m always obsessing over your height, waist and chest; please apologize on my behalf to your arms: they are spectacular!! if i ever get a chance to meet you, i’ll be sure not to offer you a drink…how about dinner?
Blimey Sandra, lucky escape eh?, you do look lovely though, I can see where the attraction for some people comes from.
Still, no means no, & people should respect that.
I’ve been an admirer of yours for years, but as i’m in the UK, rest assured, I’m not likely to appear and annoy you, lol!
I’d stay as far away from bars as possible once the clock strikes midnight.
The few times i’ve been out to clubs, i’ve felt the same way. It’s nice earlier in the evening when everyone is still getting comfortable and everyone remembers their manners. But you’re right, after people (men, in particular), get some alcohol in them, their inhibitions are suppressed and it’s like a jungle. You get to see what it’s like from a woman’s point of view.
A funny story I wanted to share was walking through a Wal-Mart (in a neighboring city) after 10pm one evening. A group of Mexican workers whistled at me going in. I managed to wheel my cart through the store without any undue attention, bought my items and was leaving. Everyone (even the ones who made me) were really nice.
Then upon leaving the store, i ended up alone at the doors meeting head-on, a trio of large cowboys. I did not have my cart in front of me by this time, so there was nothing to hide behind (and i had on a very short skirt).
I wanted to either go back inside or just disappear. I had visions of me getting tied to the bumper of a pickup truck and dragged. To my surprise, they held the door for me, grinning all over their faces. I smiled at each of them in turn as i walked through…….feeling their eyes on me as i walked the other way. I knew i’d been made, but at the same time, they seemed to enjoy what they were seeing!
Sandra, you are one good LQQKing doll. I’m not a member, however I so much enjoy your site. You have lovely legs that are always clad in nylon. I’m nylon fetish:) Love the clothes you wear. The bondage is wonderful and well done..Take care lovely one…..Edna-CD.