{"id":169,"date":"2006-09-27T13:42:51","date_gmt":"2006-09-27T21:42:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/?p=169"},"modified":"2006-09-27T13:43:43","modified_gmt":"2006-09-27T21:43:43","slug":"introverts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/archives\/169","title":{"rendered":"Introverts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Helen Boyd from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.myhusbandbetty.com\/\">My Husband Betty<\/a> had a link to an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/doc\/200303\/rauch\">interesting article<\/a> on introverts that I really enjoyed and could relate to.  I&#8217;m definitely an introvert, even though I seem to go out to a fair number of parties and am always posting potentially embarrassing pictures of myself in bondage on the net.  <\/p>\n<p>The main thing is the idea that for introverts social interaction is tiring, whereas for extroverts it&#8217;s energizing.  I generally like people, and I love my family and friends, but I also have a huge need to often be alone, and I&#8217;m sure some have probably seen me as arrogant or cold or timid because of that.  I can&#8217;t count how many times people have said to me, &#8220;You&#8217;re too quiet,&#8221; or &#8220;Why are you so serious?&#8221; Whereas the truth is that when I&#8217;m in a social situation it just takes an effort, even when I&#8217;m feeling comfortable, and after a while I&#8217;ve had enough and I just want to be alone again.  And of course it&#8217;s nothing personal, that&#8217;s just how it is for us introverts.<\/p>\n<p>I liked how the author pointed out that it&#8217;s not a character flaw or something that needs to be fixed, but just an orientation to life.  People are the way they are.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Helen Boyd from My Husband Betty had a link to an interesting article on introverts that I really enjoyed and could relate to. I&#8217;m definitely an introvert, even though I seem to go out to a fair number of parties and am always posting potentially embarrassing pictures of myself in bondage on the net. The &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/archives\/169\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Introverts<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-169","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog-related","category-sandra-here"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/169","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=169"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/169\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=169"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=169"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tranniesintrouble.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=169"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}