Your Best Scene / Worst Scene

August 23rd, 2017 at 11:32 am (life in general, los angeles)

(I started this discussion over on the T’s in Trouble Fetlife Group. Check it out if you’d like to add your own experiences or comments, or add them here…Thanks!)

Hi Everyone…I know we’ve all had our best and worst bondage scenes that we’ve both enjoyed and endured. What are yours? Mine are a bit long but I’ll go first…

My best one, or one of the best, was the sofa sleeper bondage scene that I did with “Ringgag” a long time ago. I’ve written about this one many times before and there are some pics at the link below, but basically I was tied up, ballgagged, blindfolded and then folded up inside a sofa sleeper with the mattress removed. This scene blew my mind and I was actually shivering from the anticipation when Ringgag lifted up the sofa bed and began to fold me up inside it. Then he replaced the cushions and sat down on top of me and watched TV for a while. It was obviously very tight and there was no escape. The thing is, though, I didn’t have a lot of experience so what really did a “mindfuck” on me was that once I was inside I realized we hadn’t really talked about safety signals and hadn’t discussed how long I’d be inside the sofa! So there I was…stuck! I didn’t panic but the questions kept running through my mind and I was on this edge of not-knowing what I’d gotten into. After two hours I was really uncomfortable and started to make some noise and Ringgag let me out. Looking back I wish I’d lasted all night. But in retrospect it was one of the hottest bondage scenes I’ve ever done.

Sofa Sleeper pics over on my Tumblr blog

The worst scene happened several years ago when I was out of town in another city. I found the scene so embarrassing that I haven’t written about it till now. I had had a photoshoot that was cancelled that day so I had the evening free. I’ve always been kind of turned on by the idea of paying money to see a pro domme and getting tied up and teased a little. So I found a pro domme house that was well reviewed and I decided to try it out. Boy was that a bad idea! The domme was a very attractive young lady but we had no chemistry at all. Her bondage skills were only fair and what I had hoped would be some playful teasing turned into this heavy verbal humiliation, basically tearing me down and degrading me. It wasn’t much fun at all and after a while I finally just used my safeword and said, “I need to stop.” To her credit she immediately backed off and made sure I was okay. But I left feeling really stupid and regretting the decent amount of money I’d just spent for a really unsatisfying scene. Oh well, I got to try out my fantasy and it was a dud. It just goes to show that meeting a pro domme can be a really mixed affair unless you really click with the person you’re seeing and very carefully communicate just what you’re looking for. I haven’t tried anything like that since.

Okay, those are mine. Let us know your best and worst…


  1. Hardy Harr said,

    August 23, 2017 at 9:24 pm

    Why would anyone pay a woman to verbally abuse them? You can get that for free, often unsolicited!

  2. spandexman said,

    August 24, 2017 at 4:45 pm

    A couple years ago during a dreaded visit to the Registry of Motor Vehicles to register my truck was treated poorly, as usual by a registry clerk throughout the painful visit. After I handed her the check asked her politely, “When you leave here do you whip men for money?” She didn’t take the question well, but the two other clerks laughed their asses off.

  3. Sandra said,

    August 25, 2017 at 2:08 pm

    @ Hardy Harr ;-)

    @Spandexman Great story, I’ll bet she remembered that comment ;-) Maybe a new side gig…

  4. spandexman said,

    September 2, 2017 at 11:58 am

    Your latest photos are very HOT! You were made for the color Red. Thank you.

  5. Sandra said,

    September 2, 2017 at 12:02 pm

    Thanks, PF! Glad you liked those new pics, that was an intense one!

  6. Paddy said,

    September 20, 2017 at 10:34 pm

    Hello Sandra,

    Let’s talk about my better souvenir of bondage. At that time, I met a real married woman on a bondage forum. After more than one year of chating together and telling about our lives, we decided to have a meeting in a hotel, at the town between were we lived. She is a rare nice person, a tall woman (more tha 6 feet…), with legs that are long as those of Adrianna Karembeu. She is very pretty, with a natural great authority and very selfconfident.
    To be short, this meeting was the greatest of my life. Because it was the first bondage session, then because I was in love with her, and her with me …
    She strapped me nude on a chair. My ankles and wrists were sticked to the frame of the chair and unable to move an inche…
    Then she straddled me and tesed me with her big tits … I was sat on a volcano …! But the more was to come… She stood up, took off her panties, swep her crotch with it, and shove it into my mouth and knotted a scarf over it between my lips … I was gagged with her undies …
    Then she teased me again … I was pleading through my gag for having sex with her, but she was just laughting at me … I was really fuming …
    The rest of the story is intimate …

    For a first time, it was the best time …
    She’s still my best friend today, even if she’s now in couple with another woman !


  7. Sandra said,

    October 2, 2017 at 5:30 pm

    Bonjour, Paddy! Thanks for posting; it sounds like it was a wonderful scene…

  8. SirLothario said,

    August 12, 2018 at 4:06 pm

    Omg… I remember this photo set from some time ago. I didn’t realise that it was you all trusted up in that sleeper sofa. That set gave me some wonderfully wicked ideas. Kudos Sandra.
    If you ever feel interested in revisiting that scene….

  9. Sandra said,

    August 13, 2018 at 5:03 pm

    Thanks for the comment, Sir Lothario. That was by far one of my most intense scenes. I’ve definitely thought about recreating it again. It was wild! ;-)

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