It seems sometimes that self bondage gets put down as being not real or somehow less valid than doing bondage with another person. But I’ve always found it just really sexy in and of itself. I have done self bondage sometimes when I didn’t have anyone to tie me up, but I’ve also done it many times when I was just in the mood for a good self tie. The heightened sense of danger, which is very real – people do make mistakes and accidentally hurt or kill themselved doing self bondage – really does add to the thrill. I know it’s risky, and that some people will say I’m not being “safe, sane and consensual” in doing it. Hell, I’ve even sworn in the past many times that I would never do it again…but it ain’t gonna happen. I know myself too well. That idea of getting in over my head has always been a turn on. Even if I had dozens of tie-up partners, I’d still have the desire to do self bondage from time to time. And now that I have this webcam going it’s gotten even better – having people watch while I’m doing something that’s risky, intimate, and potentially humiliating. Just another pleasant evening at home.
Hi Sandra!
Joined your blog from Trannies in Trouble, also on the Yahoo mailing list. Not ready to join the paysite yet, but love looking at the free pictures.
Anyway, about self-bondage – for me, it’s the only way to go. I am deep in the CD closet and need this kind of release on occasion. I actually had a quickie this morning before taking a phone call at home – dressed in an ivory blouse and light purple mini, with nude stockings and black pumps, then gagged and tied myself into a hogtie. Felt great and stayed there for about 15 minutes – wish it could have been longer.
Toodles,
Tina