The last couple weeks I’ve been out with my friend K. at some restaurants and we got the “Hi, ladies” greeting during two different outings, even though I was in guy mode both times. Now, for a crossdresser it’s kind of cool to be mistaken for a woman when you’re not even dressed, though I always feel for the poor server, as they immediately see their error and apologize. One waitress actually did it twice during the same meal and then apologized each time. It’s the hair. Mine’s not really that long but it’s longer than most guys, and because I’m fairly slender, when they approach from behind they sometimes read me as a girl. When the waitress apologized the second time, I just said, “Don’t worry, I get that a lot.” Which isn’t really true. It doesn’t happen that often, but again it is kind of cool when it does.
I wonder what would happen if you went back into the same places, in GIRL mode. Would that same waitress recognize you? Maybe you could say, “I know why you were confused the first time”.
When you DO go out in GIRL MODE:
– Do you try to go to places that are accepting, c-d clubs and the like?
– Or do you just show up at any old regular place – like the grocery store – as Jane Q. Public?
How much fun would it be to go out in GIRL MODE and not even make that much of a stir if you were conservatively attired.